The famous psychology doctor,Kelly Lam ,showed us his basic points about how does Chinese students think about sharing their own feeling last weekend. There are two main ideas that doctor kelly lam told me .The first point is that more than 30% students are not willing to share their feeling with people around them,no matter happiness or sadness.it is our traditional education that failed to make children to learn about how important sharing feeling is. In order to improve the psychological health level of Chinese students,doctor kelly lam insist that sharing feeling is not only a essential skill in modern times but also a good thing for their future development.