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There were two hunters in a small village. One day, they each went home after hunting two rabbits. The first hunter's wife saw this and said coldly, "only two?" When the hunter heard this, he complained in his heart, "do you think it is easy to hit?" The next day he went home empty-handed to show his wife that hunting was not easy. The second hunter was in the exact opposite situation. His wife saw that he had brought back two rabbits. Hearing this, the hunter said proudly, "what are the two?" The next day, he took home four rabbits. Both hunters listened to his wife, but they did the opposite. The second hunter brought home four rabbits the next day, all because his wife was good at praising others. Praise has a profound effect on people's behavior because it satisfies the needs of people's self-esteem. In fact, a lot of times, we just need to change our expression to make people more positive. Using negative language to criticize and hit others, it is better to adopt a way of praise, so that people have confidence in the future, the effect will be better. In fact, everyone has the same psychology, that is, the desire to be respected and recognized by others. Praise and praise are the greatest recognition. Use praise and complimentary words to lay the groundwork. This will make people more willing to listen to you. Even if you criticize him, he will be more willing to understand the reasons for his criticism and correct his mistakes.
