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经常跟父母发火，甚至几天不讲话要求：
1、表达清楚，语法正确，上下文连贯；
2、必须包括所有相关信息，并作适当的发挥；作者句法知识很棒，适当增加从句的使用，会取得更不错的成绩；作者能较熟练地使用较丰富词汇，以及部分学术词汇，单词拼写也要仔细；文章结构不够严谨，应增加过程性词汇的使用。
We are used to not speaking to them so much, some of us even not talk to their parents in days. And it is much easier to start a fight between us and our parents than when we were at younger ages. Why is this? I think the answer is the age. We are at a age that youngs can not get along well with their parents. At this age, we start to have our own thoughts about the world and establish our own judgemen references system to the society and enviorment. We start to have differient views with our parents, which looks like repellent to them. As they loved and cared about us so much, they are to worry about that the repellence would divert us to the dark side of life. Then we begin to focus on us. They would focus on everything include attitude, opinion, friends and so on. But unfortunetly it is going to increase our repellent level when we feel the focusing, because youngs hate being focused which makes us feel unfree.That is how the vicious circle biult! To deal with this, I have three suggestions. Firstly youngs should often communicate with parents, tell them what are you thinking. Secondly parents should admit and accept that their children have differences with them in thoughts. Thirdly parents learn to appriciate their children's different opinions.
