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经常跟父母发火,甚至几天不讲话要求:
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We are used to not speaking to them so much, some of us even not talk to their parents for days. And it is much easier to start a fight between us and our parents than when we were at younger ages. Why is this? I think the answer is the age. We are at the age that youngs cannot get along well with their parents. At this age, we start to have our own thoughts about the world and establish our own judgement references system to the society and environment. We start to have different views with our parents, which looks like repellent to them. As they loved and cared about us so much, they are to worry about that the repellence might drive us to the dark side of life. Then they begin to focus on us. They would focus on everything include attitude, opinion, friends and so on. But unfortunately it is going to make us even more repellent when we feel being focused, because youngs hate being focused which makes us feel uncomfortable.That is how the vicious circle built! To deal with this, I have three suggestions. Firstly youngs should often communicate with parents, let them know what are you thinking. Secondly parents should admit and accept the fact that their children have differences with them in thoughts. Thirdly parents learn to appreciate their children's different opinions.