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How should parents help children to be independent? They should give their children the freedom to make choices for themselves.Children cannot be happy if they don’t have control over their life,which in daily life,means they make choices for themselves,like,what to eat,what to wear,what career to take,what kind of spouse they are going to marry.Some parents may be open-minded enough to let their children to make these tiny decisions about food and clothes,but when it comes to the big ones,they are too anxious to let their children have a try. They used to be young and they made mistakes and now it is their sons and daughters’ turn to be young—the deep love and care is so intense that it becomes even suffocating--they are reluctant to give their children opportunities to start to be responsible for their own lives. How Should Parents Help Children to be Independent Nowadays,there is a growing concern over such a phenomenon,that is,some parents take care of almost everything concerned with their children,including study,work and marriage.Some parents believe that this is love,however,it is only to destroy children’s independence thoroughly. For the future of the next generation,more efforts should be made by parents to help their children to be independent.The fundamental one is to cultivate the awareness,namely,the importance and necessity of being independent,which is supposed to begin from childhood.Children should be taught that no one can be stronger and more helpful than themselves in this world. The quality of independence is so indispensable for us that parents had better act as a tutor,not a dictator.And only with parents' trust,can the next generation accumulate confidence step by step.
